Approaching Women

Learn To Approach Posted by Learn to Approach | Filed under Approaching
Approaching women can be fun but for most guys approaching women is one of the hardest and scariest things in the world. Let me as you can you remember the last time you were out and you saw a beautiful girl; you looked at her, she looked at you and you didn’t walk up to her and say hello? Why not?
If you are a single guy I am sure you would have noticed how many beautiful, intelligent single women there are. In fact latest statics show that there are far more single women than single men. Now you would think that’s great news for single guys, the problem is so many guys are either too fearful or have no idea how to approach women, make small talk and walk away with a phone number.
When it comes to approaching women fear seems to be one thing that holds guys back, mainly the fear of rejection. When you really look at it though, how can any person truly reject another person? I agree they can reject a situation, an idea or an advance but to reject you as a person can’t be done. Think of a time when you approached a woman and things didn’t go the way you wanted them to. Instead of beating yourself up about it, look at what really happened. Why didn’t things work out?
Another common reason most guys won’t approach women is that they want to come up with something unique to say. The only problem with this is that if you have never met this person before how do you know what you’re going to say is unique to them? There is no way of knowing this, so while you are thinking of that unique thing to say which she is going to love, another guy has already moved in, or worse still she has moved on.
Do you feel embarrassed to just walk up to a girl and start talking to her? If so you’re not alone many guys do. What is it you are embarrassed about? It’s nearly impossible to be embarrassed about something that has not happened. The only reason you can feel embarrassed about approaching women is because of what you are thinking about yourself.
What do you think of yourself? All day you are talking, whether internally or externally. If you spoke to your friends the way you spoke to yourself would they be your friends? One thing that every guy who is very good with women has in common is the belief they have in themselves, they too have internal conversations with themselves just in a different way.
In a recent survey over 1,000 girls were asked what quality they look for in a potential partner. The answer was not looks, money or what car he drives, it was confidence. The best thing about confidence is that nobody is born with confidence, it is a learned skill. A skill that you can have when it comes to approaching women.
No matter your age at Learn To Approach we specialize in helping guys to get rid of the fears and start approaching women they want to date.
Anything’s Possible Scott
Learn To Approach
Permalink | November 18th, 2010

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